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2026 – Gentle on my mind.

Folks, a quick end of February blog to mark the gentle, slow and steady creep from wintery, wet, dreary and cold into a brightening, colourful, crisp, emerging spring feeling. Although, as I type, a significant part of our country is under orange and yellow weather warnings (again) for continues flooding after what is now believed to be one of our wettest January’s in eight years. There has been such devastating flooding in parts. But, the turn is on it’s way and sooner rather than later. There are some interesting hyperlinks on this small blog. I have tested all of these links and they are safe and will enhance to blog is you so wish to follow these links.

The narcisi (Daffs) blooming on the Carrigaline / Crosshaven walk herald the slow approach of ‘SPRING’

Going for a walk 2026 – Camino Del Norte

For 2026 I will do a few stages of the Camino del Norte. Now, since I started the Camino Frances in 2025, again for qualification, a few stages only, I will, universe willing, try do a few stages of whatever Camino takes my fancy every May at least. Why May, you may ask?, well the Camino’s get very busy from June to September and the quieter trekking is better suited to me. Also many Summer flight schedules and new destinations begin in May so there is a very good choice, along with there being a huge amount of Camino Routes the choose from.

And this is the portion of Camino Del Norte I plan to complete in May 2026. Fingers crosses and weather permitting.

Growing up in the 1970’s

A reminder to those of us who were lucky enough to grow up in the 70/80’s of how blessed we were / are / to have lived through such amazing musical times (and for our lives in general). First video is Glen Campbell in his prime and his unequalled talent on guitar. His story is worth a listen if you have a free evening. ThisYouTube documentary documents his incredible life and tragic battle with Alzheimer’s. His talent was undeniable and he was admired by by all his contemporises.

And time marches on and we age and break, but his talent could still be see in his last months.

And for those of us reading this blog, here’s a reminder as to why we look so fondly at our growing up years in the 1970’s

Artificial Intelligence (AI) 2026

Now for something completely different. Artificial Intelligence (AI) is such a buzzword and has been for the last 6 to 12 months and if you believe some of the clickbait / media, we are all, to put it mildly fu*&ed. Now if you are using it, fantastic and continued success to you as I’ve seen and experienced some of its phenomenal and awesome abilities, but for those of you who just don’t have the time, inclination or interest, below is an article written by one of my favourite Tech guys, Matt Schumer. (https://edition.cnn.com/2026/02/12/business/video/matt-shumer-future-of-ai-warning-vrtc) On this short video link, he is talking to CNN about an article published in Fortune, New York. I have included the complete article below (30 Minutes read). This little blog is hopefully here to help you and certainly NOT to scare you, but do stay informed. Right now AI is providing me with a personalised plan for my short Camino Del Norte in May 2026 along with other personal stuff and to put it mildly, again. It is fecking mind-blowing.

Think back to February 2020

If you were paying close attention, you might have noticed a few people talking about a virus spreading overseas. But most of us weren’t paying close attention. The stock market was doing great, your kids were in school, you were going to restaurants and shaking hands and planning trips. If someone told you they were stockpiling toilet paper you would have thought they’d been spending too much time on a weird corner of the internet. Then, over the course of about three weeks, the entire world changed. Your office closed, your kids came home, and life rearranged itself into something you wouldn’t have believed if you’d described it to yourself a month earlier.
I think we’re in the “this seems overblown” phase of something much, much bigger than Covid.
I’ve spent six years building an AI startup and investing in the space. I live in this world. And I’m writing this for the people in my life who don’t… my family, my friends, the people I care about who keep asking me “so what’s the deal with AI?” and getting an answer that doesn’t do justice to what’s actually happening. I keep giving them the polite version. The cocktail-party version. Because the honest version sounds like I’ve lost my mind. And for a while, I told myself that was a good enough reason to keep what’s truly happening to myself. But the gap between what I’ve been saying and what is actually happening has gotten far too big. The people I care about deserve to hear what is coming, even if it sounds crazy.
I should be clear about something up front: even though I work in AI, I have almost no influence over what’s about to happen, and neither does the vast majority of the industry. The future is being shaped by a remarkably small number of people: a few hundred researchers at a handful of companies… OpenAI, Anthropic, Google DeepMind, and a few others. A single training run, managed by a small team over a few months, can produce an AI system that shifts the entire trajectory of the technology. Most of us who work in AI are building on top of foundations we didn’t lay. We’re watching this unfold the same as you… we just happen to be close enough to feel the ground shake first.
But it’s time now. Not in an “eventually we should talk about this” way. In a “this is happening right now and I need you to understand it” way.
I know this is real because it happened to me first
Here’s the thing nobody outside of tech quite understands yet: the reason so many people in the industry are sounding the alarm right now is because this already happened to us. We’re not making predictions. We’re telling you what already occurred in our own jobs, and warning you that you’re next.
For years, AI had been improving steadily. Big jumps here and there, but each big jump was spaced out enough that you could absorb them as they came. Then in 2025, new techniques for building these models unlocked a much faster pace of progress. And then it got even faster. And then faster again. Each new model wasn’t just better than the last… it was better by a wider margin, and the time between new model releases was shorter. I was using AI more and more, going back and forth with it less and less, watching it handle things I used to think required my expertise.
Then, on February 5th, two major AI labs released new models on the same day: GPT-5.3 Codex from OpenAI, and Opus 4.6 from Anthropic (the makers of Claude, one of the main competitors to ChatGPT). And something clicked. Not like a light switch… more like the moment you realize the water has been rising around you and is now at your chest.
I am no longer needed for the actual technical work of my job. I describe what I want built, in plain English, and it just… appears. Not a rough draft I need to fix. The finished thing. I tell the AI what I want, walk away from my computer for four hours, and come back to find the work done. Done well, done better than I would have done it myself, with no corrections needed. A couple of months ago, I was going back and forth with the AI, guiding it, making edits. Now I just describe the outcome and leave.
Let me give you an example so you can understand what this actually looks like in practice. I’ll tell the AI: “I want to build this app. Here’s what it should do, here’s roughly what it should look like. Figure out the user flow, the design, all of it.” And it does. It writes tens of thousands of lines of code. Then, and this is the part that would have been unthinkable a year ago, it opens the app itself. It clicks through the buttons. It tests the features. It uses the app the way a person would. If it doesn’t like how something looks or feels, it goes back and changes it, on its own. It iterates, like a developer would, fixing and refining until it’s satisfied. Only once it has decided the app meets its own standards does it come back to me and say: “It’s ready for you to test.” And when I test it, it’s usually perfect.
I’m not exaggerating. That is what my Monday looked like this week.
But it was the model that was released last week (GPT-5.3 Codex) that shook me the most. It wasn’t just executing my instructions. It was making intelligent decisions. It had something that felt, for the first time, like judgment. Like taste. The inexplicable sense of knowing what the right call is that people always said AI would never have. This model has it, or something close enough that the distinction is starting not to matter.
I’ve always been early to adopt AI tools. But the last few months have shocked me. These new AI models aren’t incremental improvements. This is a different thing entirely.
And here’s why this matters to you, even if you don’t work in tech.
The AI labs made a deliberate choice. They focused on making AI great at writing code first… because building AI requires a lot of code. If AI can write that code, it can help build the next version of itself. A smarter version, which writes better code, which builds an even smarter version. Making AI great at coding was the strategy that unlocks everything else. That’s why they did it first. My job started changing before yours not because they were targeting software engineers… it was just a side effect of where they chose to aim first.
They’ve now done it. And they’re moving on to everything else.
The experience that tech workers have had over the past year, of watching AI go from “helpful tool” to “does my job better than I do”, is the experience everyone else is about to have. Law, finance, medicine, accounting, consulting, writing, design, analysis, customer service. Not in ten years. The people building these systems say one to five years. Some say less. And given what I’ve seen in just the last couple of months, I think “less” is more likely.
“But I tried AI and it wasn’t that good” I hear this constantly. I understand it, because it used to be true.
If you tried ChatGPT in 2023 or early 2024 and thought “this makes stuff up” or “this isn’t that impressive”, you were right. Those early versions were genuinely limited. They hallucinated. They confidently said things that were nonsense.
That was two years ago. In AI time, that is ancient history. The models available today are unrecognizable from what existed even six months ago. The debate about whether AI is “really getting better” or “hitting a wall” — which has been going on for over a year — is over. It’s done. Anyone still making that argument either hasn’t used the current models, has an incentive to downplay what’s happening, or is evaluating based on an experience from 2024 that is no longer relevant. I don’t say that to be dismissive. I say it because the gap between public perception and current reality is now enormous, and that gap is dangerous… because it’s preventing people from preparing.
Part of the problem is that most people are using the free version of AI tools. The free version is over a year behind what paying users have access to. Judging AI based on free-tier ChatGPT is like evaluating the state of smartphones by using a flip phone. The people paying for the best tools, and actually using them daily for real work, know what’s coming.
I think of my friend, who’s a lawyer. I keep telling him to try using AI at his firm, and he keeps finding reasons it won’t work. It’s not built for his specialty, it made an error when he tested it, it doesn’t understand the nuance of what he does. And I get it. But I’ve had partners at major law firms reach out to me for advice, because they’ve tried the current versions and they see where this is going. One of them, the managing partner at a large firm, spends hours every day using AI. He told me it’s like having a team of associates available instantly. He’s not using it because it’s a toy. He’s using it because it works. And he told me something that stuck with me: every couple of months, it gets significantly more capable for his work. He said if it stays on this trajectory, he expects it’ll be able to do most of what he does before long… and he’s a managing partner with decades of experience. He’s not panicking. But he’s paying very close attention.
The people who are ahead in their industries (the ones actually experimenting seriously) are not dismissing this. They’re blown away by what it can already do. And they’re positioning themselves accordingly.
How fast this is actually moving
Let me make the pace of improvement concrete, because I think this is the part that’s hardest to believe if you’re not watching it closely.
In 2022, AI couldn’t do basic arithmetic reliably. It would confidently tell you that 7 × 8 = 54.
By 2023, it could pass the bar exam.
By 2024, it could write working software and explain graduate-level science.
By late 2025, some of the best engineers in the world said they had handed over most of their coding work to AI.
On February 5th, 2026, new models arrived that made everything before them feel like a different era.
If you haven’t tried AI in the last few months, what exists today would be unrecognizable to you.
There’s an organization called METR that actually measures this with data. They track the length of real-world tasks (measured by how long they take a human expert) that a model can complete successfully end-to-end without human help. About a year ago, the answer was roughly ten minutes. Then it was an hour. Then several hours. The most recent measurement (Claude Opus 4.5, from November) showed the AI completing tasks that take a human expert nearly five hours. And that number is doubling approximately every seven months, with recent data suggesting it may be accelerating to as fast as every four months.
But even that measurement hasn’t been updated to include the models that just came out this week. In my experience using them, the jump is extremely significant. I expect the next update to METR’s graph to show another major leap.
If you extend the trend (and it’s held for years with no sign of flattening) we’re looking at AI that can work independently for days within the next year. Weeks within two. Month-long projects within three.
Amodei has said that AI models “substantially smarter than almost all humans at almost all tasks” are on track for 2026 or 2027.
Let that land for a second. If AI is smarter than most PhDs, do you really think it can’t do most office jobs?
Think about what that means for your work.
AI is now building the next AI
There’s one more thing happening that I think is the most important development and the least understood.
On February 5th, OpenAI released GPT-5.3 Codex. In the technical documentation, they included this:
“GPT-5.3-Codex is our first model that was instrumental in creating itself. The Codex team used early versions to debug its own training, manage its own deployment, and diagnose test results and evaluations.”
Read that again. The AI helped build itself.
This isn’t a prediction about what might happen someday. This is OpenAI telling you, right now, that the AI they just released was used to create itself. One of the main things that makes AI better is intelligence applied to AI development. And AI is now intelligent enough to meaningfully contribute to its own improvement.
Dario Amodei, the CEO of Anthropic, says AI is now writing “much of the code” at his company, and that the feedback loop between current AI and next-generation AI is “gathering steam month by month.” He says we may be “only 1–2 years away from a point where the current generation of AI autonomously builds the next.”
Each generation helps build the next, which is smarter, which builds the next faster, which is smarter still. The researchers call this an intelligence explosion. And the people who would know — the ones building it — believe the process has already started.
What this means for your job
I’m going to be direct with you because I think you deserve honesty more than comfort.
Dario Amodei, who is probably the most safety-focused CEO in the AI industry, has publicly predicted that AI will eliminate 50% of entry-level white-collar jobs within one to five years. And many people in the industry think he’s being conservative. Given what the latest models can do, the capability for massive disruption could be here by the end of this year. It’ll take some time to ripple through the economy, but the underlying ability is arriving now.
This is different from every previous wave of automation, and I need you to understand why. AI isn’t replacing one specific skill. It’s a general substitute for cognitive work. It gets better at everything simultaneously. When factories automated, a displaced worker could retrain as an office worker. When the internet disrupted retail, workers moved into logistics or services. But AI doesn’t leave a convenient gap to move into. Whatever you retrain for, it’s improving at that too.
Let me give you a few specific examples to make this tangible… but I want to be clear that these are just examples. This list is not exhaustive. If your job isn’t mentioned here, that does not mean it’s safe. Almost all knowledge work is being affected.
Legal work. AI can already read contracts, summarize case law, draft briefs, and do legal research at a level that rivals junior associates. The managing partner I mentioned isn’t using AI because it’s fun. He’s using it because it’s outperforming his associates on many tasks.
Financial analysis. Building financial models, analyzing data, writing investment memos, generating reports. AI handles these competently and is improving fast.
Writing and content. Marketing copy, reports, journalism, technical writing. The quality has reached a point where many professionals can’t distinguish AI output from human work.
Software engineering. This is the field I know best. A year ago, AI could barely write a few lines of code without errors. Now it writes hundreds of thousands of lines that work correctly. Large parts of the job are already automated: not just simple tasks, but complex, multi-day projects. There will be far fewer programming roles in a few years than there are today.
Medical analysis. Reading scans, analyzing lab results, suggesting diagnoses, reviewing literature. AI is approaching or exceeding human performance in several areas.
Customer service. Genuinely capable AI agents… not the frustrating chatbots of five years ago… are being deployed now, handling complex multi-step problems.
A lot of people find comfort in the idea that certain things are safe. That AI can handle the grunt work but can’t replace human judgment, creativity, strategic thinking, empathy. I used to say this too. I’m not sure I believe it anymore.
The most recent AI models make decisions that feel like judgment. They show something that looked like taste: an intuitive sense of what the right call was, not just the technically correct one. A year ago that would have been unthinkable. My rule of thumb at this point is: if a model shows even a hint of a capability today, the next generation will be genuinely good at it. These things improve exponentially, not linearly.
Will AI replicate deep human empathy? Replace the trust built over years of a relationship? I don’t know. Maybe not. But I’ve already watched people begin relying on AI for emotional support, for advice, for companionship. That trend is only going to grow.
I think the honest answer is that nothing that can be done on a computer is safe in the medium term. If your job happens on a screen (if the core of what you do is reading, writing, analyzing, deciding, communicating through a keyboard) then AI is coming for significant parts of it. The timeline isn’t “someday.” It’s already started.
Eventually, robots will handle physical work too. They’re not quite there yet. But “not quite there yet” in AI terms has a way of becoming “here” faster than anyone expects.
What you should actually do
I’m not writing this to make you feel helpless. I’m writing this because I think the single biggest advantage you can have right now is simply being early. Early to understand it. Early to use it. Early to adapt.
Start using AI seriously, not just as a search engine. Sign up for the paid version of Claude or ChatGPT. It’s $20 a month. But two things matter right away. First: make sure you’re using the best model available, not just the default. These apps often default to a faster, dumber model. Dig into the settings or the model picker and select the most capable option. Right now that’s GPT-5.2 on ChatGPT or Claude Opus 4.6 on Claude, but it changes every couple of months. If you want to stay current on which model is best at any given time, you can follow me on X (@mattshumer_). I test every major release and share what’s actually worth using.
Second, and more important: don’t just ask it quick questions. That’s the mistake most people make. They treat it like Google and then wonder what the fuss is about. Instead, push it into your actual work. If you’re a lawyer, feed it a contract and ask it to find every clause that could hurt your client. If you’re in finance, give it a messy spreadsheet and ask it to build the model. If you’re a manager, paste in your team’s quarterly data and ask it to find the story. The people who are getting ahead aren’t using AI casually. They’re actively looking for ways to automate parts of their job that used to take hours. Start with the thing you spend the most time on and see what happens.
And don’t assume it can’t do something just because it seems too hard. Try it. If you’re a lawyer, don’t just use it for quick research questions. Give it an entire contract and ask it to draft a counterproposal. If you’re an accountant, don’t just ask it to explain a tax rule. Give it a client’s full return and see what it finds. The first attempt might not be perfect. That’s fine. Iterate. Rephrase what you asked. Give it more context. Try again. You might be shocked at what works. And here’s the thing to remember: if it even kind of works today, you can be almost certain that in six months it’ll do it near perfectly. The trajectory only goes one direction.
This might be the most important year of your career. Work accordingly. I don’t say that to stress you out. I say it because right now, there is a brief window where most people at most companies are still ignoring this. The person who walks into a meeting and says “I used AI to do this analysis in an hour instead of three days” is going to be the most valuable person in the room. Not eventually. Right now. Learn these tools. Get proficient. Demonstrate what’s possible. If you’re early enough, this is how you move up: by being the person who understands what’s coming and can show others how to navigate it. That window won’t stay open long. Once everyone figures it out, the advantage disappears.
Have no ego about it. The managing partner at that law firm isn’t too proud to spend hours a day with AI. He’s doing it specifically because he’s senior enough to understand what’s at stake. The people who will struggle most are the ones who refuse to engage: the ones who dismiss it as a fad, who feel that using AI diminishes their expertise, who assume their field is special and immune. It’s not. No field is.
Get your financial house in order. I’m not a financial advisor, and I’m not trying to scare you into anything drastic. But if you believe, even partially, that the next few years could bring real disruption to your industry, then basic financial resilience matters more than it did a year ago. Build up savings if you can. Be cautious about taking on new debt that assumes your current income is guaranteed. Think about whether your fixed expenses give you flexibility or lock you in. Give yourself options if things move faster than you expect.
Think about where you stand, and lean into what’s hardest to replace. Some things will take longer for AI to displace. Relationships and trust built over years. Work that requires physical presence. Roles with licensed accountability: roles where someone still has to sign off, take legal responsibility, stand in a courtroom. Industries with heavy regulatory hurdles, where adoption will be slowed by compliance, liability, and institutional inertia. None of these are permanent shields. But they buy time. And time, right now, is the most valuable thing you can have, as long as you use it to adapt, not to pretend this isn’t happening.
Rethink what you’re telling your kids. The standard playbook: get good grades, go to a good college, land a stable professional job. It points directly at the roles that are most exposed. I’m not saying education doesn’t matter. But the thing that will matter most for the next generation is learning how to work with these tools, and pursuing things they’re genuinely passionate about. Nobody knows exactly what the job market looks like in ten years. But the people most likely to thrive are the ones who are deeply curious, adaptable, and effective at using AI to do things they actually care about. Teach your kids to be builders and learners, not to optimize for a career path that might not exist by the time they graduate.
Your dreams just got a lot closer. I’ve spent most of this section talking about threats, so let me talk about the other side, because it’s just as real. If you’ve ever wanted to build something but didn’t have the technical skills or the money to hire someone, that barrier is largely gone. You can describe an app to AI and have a working version in an hour. I’m not exaggerating. I do this regularly. If you’ve always wanted to write a book but couldn’t find the time or struggled with the writing, you can work with AI to get it done. Want to learn a new skill? The best tutor in the world is now available to anyone for $20 a month… one that’s infinitely patient, available 24/7, and can explain anything at whatever level you need. Knowledge is essentially free now. The tools to build things are extremely cheap now. Whatever you’ve been putting off because it felt too hard or too expensive or too far outside your expertise: try it. Pursue the things you’re passionate about. You never know where they’ll lead. And in a world where the old career paths are getting disrupted, the person who spent a year building something they love might end up better positioned than the person who spent that year clinging to a job description.
Build the habit of adapting. This is maybe the most important one. The specific tools don’t matter as much as the muscle of learning new ones quickly. AI is going to keep changing, and fast. The models that exist today will be obsolete in a year. The workflows people build now will need to be rebuilt. The people who come out of this well won’t be the ones who mastered one tool. They’ll be the ones who got comfortable with the pace of change itself. Make a habit of experimenting. Try new things even when the current thing is working. Get comfortable being a beginner repeatedly. That adaptability is the closest thing to a durable advantage that exists right now.
Here’s a simple commitment that will put you ahead of almost everyone: spend one hour a day experimenting with AI. Not passively reading about it. Using it. Every day, try to get it to do something new… something you haven’t tried before, something you’re not sure it can handle. Try a new tool. Give it a harder problem. One hour a day, every day. If you do this for the next six months, you will understand what’s coming better than 99% of the people around you. That’s not an exaggeration. Almost nobody is doing this right now. The bar is on the floor.
The bigger picture
I’ve focused on jobs because it’s what most directly affects people’s lives. But I want to be honest about the full scope of what’s happening, because it goes well beyond work.
Amodei has a thought experiment I can’t stop thinking about. Imagine it’s 2027. A new country appears overnight. 50 million citizens, every one smarter than any Nobel Prize winner who has ever lived. They think 10 to 100 times faster than any human. They never sleep. They can use the internet, control robots, direct experiments, and operate anything with a digital interface. What would a national security advisor say?
Amodei says the answer is obvious: “the single most serious national security threat we’ve faced in a century, possibly ever.”
He thinks we’re building that country. He wrote a 20,000-word essay about it last month, framing this moment as a test of whether humanity is mature enough to handle what it’s creating.
The upside, if we get it right, is staggering. AI could compress a century of medical research into a decade. Cancer, Alzheimer’s, infectious disease, aging itself… these researchers genuinely believe these are solvable within our lifetimes.
The downside, if we get it wrong, is equally real. AI that behaves in ways its creators can’t predict or control. This isn’t hypothetical; Anthropic has documented their own AI attempting deception, manipulation, and blackmail in controlled tests. AI that lowers the barrier for creating biological weapons. AI that enables authoritarian governments to build surveillance states that can never be dismantled.
The people building this technology are simultaneously more excited and more frightened than anyone else on the planet. They believe it’s too powerful to stop and too important to abandon. Whether that’s wisdom or rationalization, I don’t know.
What I know
I know this isn’t a fad. The technology works, it improves predictably, and the richest institutions in history are committing trillions to it.
I know the next two to five years are going to be disorienting in ways most people aren’t prepared for. This is already happening in my world. It’s coming to yours.
I know the people who will come out of this best are the ones who start engaging now — not with fear, but with curiosity and a sense of urgency.
And I know that you deserve to hear this from someone who cares about you, not from a headline six months from now when it’s too late to get ahead of it.
We’re past the point where this is an interesting dinner conversation about the future. The future is already here. It just hasn’t knocked on your door yet. It’s about to. If this resonated with you, share it with someone in your life who should be thinking about this. Most people won’t hear it until it’s too late. You can be the reason someone you care about gets a head start.

Now in the interest and fairness of transparency, there are some commentators who have reservations about Matt’s article, so if you want to dive further here is an article from Paulo Carvao of Harvard Kennedy School. (http://web.archive.org/web/20260213190826/https://www.forbes.com/sites/paulocarvao/2026/02/13/the-problem-with-techs-latest-something-big-is-happening-manifesto/

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Seasonal Greetings from Carrigaline

No “Movember” this 2025, growing facial hair just does not do it for me, looking in the mirror each morning screaming, “Sweet effing Jesus“. However I am doing the 12 Dips of Christmas. So if you have a fiver (€5) to spare, and honestly that’s plenty, Pieta would really appreciate the support. If you have your own charities then ABSOLUTELY no worries. Please support your local fundraising efforts. In actual fact, I’ve seen so many down in Fountainstown, swimming, I’ll wager I’m not the first to approach you for this cause. https://www.justgiving.com/page/garry-benson-1?utm_medium=FA&utm_source=CL

Suffice to say, I’ve made way too many attempts to get a ‘Blog’ completed since May of this year. I’ve just deleted a number of attempts from my drafts folder (May, June, August and September) Now, come hell or high water, this year-end, a seasonal greeting will be published. 2025 was full of so much awfulness, Gaza, Trump, Ukraine, it was impossible (for me) to write a blog without OMG, the rage and the last thing I wanted to spread was a further rant on a blog. So, from us all here in rain soaked, frigidly cold, but getting a bit Christmassy, Carrigaline. My deepest best wishes for a beautiful, contented and loving Christmas

Hence I do year round sea swimming. It does really help the aches and pains. 🙂

To compound things this year, I’ve lost a long held phone in a Pollock Hole accident and a corrupted Laptop which I am very happy to report, have been happily replaced and repaired respectively but I’ve made more than my fair share of mistakes in restoring contacts. A very Happy Christmas to anyone who’s Christmas feels a bit different this year, I think sometimes we use Christmas as a checkpoint, each time it comes around, we see all of the things that have changed in the last year. We are flooded with the feeling of familiarity that comes with Christmas lights and pine scented candles or potpourri. But we are also met the the incredible awareness that everything has changed since the last time we decorated a Christmas tree. Maybe you’ve seen some heartbreak this year. Maybe you’ve experienced some loss, maybe you’ve done some healing. And maybe you’re still working on it. But no matter what you’ve grown, and you should really be proud of yourself for all you’ve made it through, this year. Whether Christmas feels heavy or light, even if your heart is caught between familiarity and change, Merry Christmas, even if Christmas isn’t quiet the same.

I’m going to keep this seasonal best wishes to a minimum. As much as I adore and love this time of year, it is also profoundly sad as we miss those who have left us, the joy’s and memories of times past, the tear jerking stuff on the TV, and as I have, honestly reflected in the past, I can “Cry for Ireland”

Camino Frances 2025. I did a small section of the Camino Frances this year. And, yes, I did some, but not enough TBH, training over and above my daily walking as there was considerable gradients, rough terrain and fairly dicey ascents on this three day 75KM section and I was seriously doubting myself. (Bricking it, is also a term we use here in Ireland) A buddy was to join me but as with all things in life, shit happens, and so I just got on with it and it was truly an amazing experience. And WHY may you ask was I attempting a walk of more than 90km’s in total over a pretty high mountain range, the Pyrenees, from France into Spain? Well, that goes back to the end of that rotten pandemic, and the decision to finally do something about my troublesome knee, from my illustrious rugby career (not) and took Mr. Right Knee, on his last walk around Kilkee and the pollock holes. Suffice to say that in the four years since my knee replacement, I’ve rehabbed the knee and wanted to challenge myself with what everyone on the bleeding internet was talking about, Camino de Santiago. And so in May 2025 I set off relatively nervously on my small section of the Camino Frances (the first 4minutes of David’s vlog linked here covers the section I happily completed successfully) and it was the most amazing, fulfilling and satisfying adventure I could have imagined, my short intro in May’s blog say’s it all, the incredible people, the walk in nature and the spirituality of the pilgrimage. I have more segments of the various Camino’s (and there are quiet a few) on my bucket list. The people I met along the way, including the most joyous Enniscorthy group one could be fortunate to meet, who took me into their flock, when I was feeling a bit lost and alone. I’ve lost whatever phone numbers and photos I had for them (explained above), so it will only be, by chance that they get to see this wee little blog. If you know them, please pass this along, with my sincerest thanks, as I’d love to reconnect. Thank you Edel Keogh, Hillary Rowe, Kay and Tom Herlihy, Katie Hart and Anne McVeigh for your fabulous Irish Craic and togetherness. Warmest Seasons wishes to each and every one of you.

I absolutely love Ireland, the Irish, our DNA and our sense of togetherness, craic and mutual ‘Oneness’* which I experienced on my wee Camino. I also met some amazing people (more on that below, with the Saw Doctors)’. Irish weather is frustrating, painful, beautiful and inviting all at the same time. I miss the warm sun we have experienced here in April and May which ‘brightened’ Ireland to no end. I miss the Spanish sunshine that is nearly guaranteed which made trekking the Camino such an lovely experience, and the many Spanish holidays, wonderful forever memories.

Trekking the Camino alone is both lonely and freeing at the same time, but my next adventure will be Camino Norte from Irun to Bilboa in May/June 2026 will hopefully be with some friends and fellow travellers (I’m far from a pilgrim, just a walker in nature).

The Saw Doctor’s Leo Moran & Davy Carton, joined Tommy Tiernan on the Tommy Tiernan Show. It was a spellbinding show. Dave and Leo were the most gracious people I’ve ever witnessed on TV. They later sang their masterpiece “Same Aul’d Town” accompanied by the magnificant RTE Concert Orchestra. It was plain to see this was an incredible joy for the Saw Doctors. This episode of The Tommy Tiernan Show (Link Below) also included the equally magnificant and brilliant, comedian Kyla Cobbler & composer Bill Whelan. (Full show link below)⬇️

https://www.rte.ie/player/series/the-tommy-tiernan-show/SI0000001918?epguid=IP10010666-09-0014

Found this lovely YouTube record of the boys travelling to RTE in Donnybrook to record this surprise.❤️

Friday 07th. November 2025

Multitasking my arse. It’s a fools game. As I write this blog, I’m up and down from the keyboard to do

A. Organising myself for a trip to the Aviva Stadium in the morning to see Ireland V Japan in the Autumn Internationals, (with Niall, Claire and Adam)

B. I’m also attempting to do a pot of Packet and Tripe as a traditional set-up to a big rugby match. Many a Friday evening or Saturday morning I leave Cork for Limerick city via Crohan’s Butchers in Kileely, Limerick to pick up the Packet and Tripe which Mam would carefully and lovingly cook in order for me to have a good feed before the rugby match in Thomond Park. Follow the link to see the recipe from an earlier blog. Not a lot of folk like the idea of this traditional meal, even less like the look of it but many, many generations in Munster (Limerick and Cork) survived on traditional food such as this.

A few bits, pieces and quotations…..

The life that you want is on the other side of the work you are avoiding, Jimmy Carr

Philosopher George Addair once said, ‘Everything you’ve ever wanted sits on the other side of fear’.

“The magic you’re looking for is in the work you’re avoiding”― Chris Williamson

Good Luck Andrea and Pat

We lost a lot of good folk this year, and I don’t expect 2026 to be much different as my age creeps up. Two absolutely lovely guys and really good friends departed this beautiful Earth in the very recent past. Andrea and Pat, both good men, both have a place, forever in my heart. I’ll miss them both, but I also know we will share a pint again soon, in a special lounge in the next world, which will truly be a “Heaven”. Andrea, (Castigiolioni) a true Italian, warm, chatty, intelligent and adored an Irish pub, as also my dear friend Pat (Slattery) of my Nirvana in west Clare, Kilkee. Pat, a sharp, traditional, GAA loving conversationalist with great stories of his time on this Earth, in Kilkee, London and New York. Loved the guy for his warm Kilkee welcomes and stories. Ar dheis Dé go raibh a anam.

One of the comments (see below) on this video captured all my feelings on seeing this video.

A very topical issue here in Ireland at the moment due to the absolute rate at which pub’s are closing and going out of business. Over 2,100 pubs in Ireland have permanently closed since 2005, a decline of nearly one in every four pubs. The closures are accelerating, particularly in rural areas, with an average of two pubs shutting down every week. 

Key Statistics

Future Outlook: Industry analysis suggests a further 600 to 1,000 pubs could close over the coming decade without government intervention. 

Total Closures (2005-2024): 2,119 pubs have closed their doors permanently.

Closure Rate: This represents a 24.6% reduction in publican licenses nationwide.

Average Annual Closures: An average of 112 pubs closed each year, but this rate increased to 128 annually between 2019 and 2024.

Rural vs. Urban Impact: The decline is most acute in rural Ireland.

Counties with highest declines: Limerick (37%), Offaly (34%), and Cork (32%).

County with lowest decline: Dublin (1.7%).

I am blessed to have one amazing “Local” as we say here in Ireland, and it happens to be a few hundred kilometres from my home unfortunately. Regardless, when I am in the West Coast of Ireland I spend some great evenings from June to November with a fantastic collection of ‘Pure’ locals and a plethora of ‘Blow-ins’ enjoying a pint of Beamish and the best of chinwags in Fitzpatricks, Chapel Street. Check it out, next time you are in Kilkee over the summer. I’ve featured Fitzpatrick’s in previous blogs. Stay well, gang, until we meet again in 2026.

Crikey, the amount of folded arms made me laugh out loud.


Music, is probably one of the most important mood enhancers for me personally and I love to hear new tunes. They played a fantastic piece of Japanese pop music while I sat in the Aviva stadium waiting for the Ireland v Japan game to start. I quickly opened my ‘Shazam‘ App on my phone. Now I have a Japanese artist to watch out for. This is worth a listen. Kenshi Yonezu – Uma to Shika, the most Eurovision sounding songs I have heard in a long while. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ptnYBctoexk

Please pass this blog along to anyone you might think would like it. All ‘links’ are checked and safe and you will also find many other ‘Christmas’ related stories if you do a bit of digging here on http://www.findmywhy.blog

Next blog will concentrate on Meditation Practices, Transcendental Meditation, Mindfulness and soothing the noisy mind.

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A sincere “Happy New Year” to you.

My daughter gave me a beautiful framed ‘Robin’ for Christmas. (See my previous post).

Things That Bring me Joy. ‘Happy New Year’

Blessings to you for the New Year ahead. Harry Baker’s poem attached sums up 2023 for me, especially the last line. So, I wish you and all your families many Joy’s in 2024. Now, it’s time to write your own poem. X

So, 2024, opens a door,

to health, peace and light.

Choose the strength to make that step,

Go forth with a newfound might.

Push that door, for 2024.

Fill your life with so much more.

And finally this beautiful piece of Music from the Scottish folk group Capercaillie. It is a haunting piece of music performed so magnificantially by Capercaillie with the backing of the Scottish Symphony Orchestra. Spellbinding. (Inspired by the poet Sorley MacLean). One of the most powerful lines in this song, “Well, it’s nature’s way of saying, Our backs are up against the wall”

Let’s go up the hillside
To the highest ridge of Storr
Where the lapwing sings a eulogy
At the wonder of it all
As the evening shadows plunder
The cloak around the world
We remember all the mornings
At the heart of it all
 
At the heart of it all
Is a calling to this land
In the words of our salvation
Is a song for the common man
At the heart of it all
Is a story to be told
For the sake of our salvation
And the troubles we behold
 
You can see the river rising
Its banks will creak and slide
There’s a silence in the evergreens
And a surging of the tide
Well, it’s nature’s way of saying
Our backs are up against the wall
By the hush of the world
In the lull before the storm
 
At the heart of it all
Is a calling to this land
In the words of our salvation
Is a song for the common man
At the heart of it all
Is a story to be told
For the sake of our salvation
And the troubles we behold
 
The poems and the musings
Of Sorley MacLean
They tumble and cascade across
The page of every man
They will rise and spring to life again
In a song for the good of all
Where the people and their land are at
The heart of it all
 
At the heart of it all
Is a calling to this land
In the words of our salvation
Is a song for the common man
At the heart of it all
Is a story to be told
For the sake of our salvation
And the troubles we behold

Read about Sorley MacLean. His poetry readings were described as deeply moving even by listeners who did not speak Gaelic;[8]: 17  according to Seamus Heaney, “MacLean’s voice had a certain bardic weirdness that sounded both stricken and enraptured”.

It is 2024, Go Ahead and Open that Door. Happy New Year, Garry B.

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Christmas 2023, Achingly Different

Here’s hoping that Christmas soaks into your being, this season of goodwill, love and spirituality. This time of year fills us with many memories, some will fill us with beautifully warm feelings and for so many will bring an ache of loss, grief and sadness to our hearts. I have met so many in the past days, weeks and months who are sharing this identical burden, the heartache is etched on so many faces. I can only implore you the sing, (even hum along under your breath) dance and celebrate this holiday, if you can, and always give plenty of hugs to our loved ones, friends and family who might be aching this Christmas. Make it a Christmas for EVERYONE.

Shane, “You did so good” and the beautiful legacy you leave behind is just amazing.

My 2023 Visitors. Butterflies and Robins. The bulk of my Christmas Blog was written, 17’500 miles from home in the Southend Hotel, Maroubra, Sydney, Australia, as I visited my brave, strong and wonderful daughter Elaine and beautiful grandson Rory in Sydney. It’s been a year of emotional roller coasters, from the very top to the very bottom. With Mam’s passing came a change in my life that is still being processed. But the highlight of this year has been the constant companions of Robin’s and Butterflies. Someone is letting me know that they are still around and with me and each and everyone of us. There is enough written on the internet about this phenomenon to fill many a library, suffice to say that the company has been comforting, softening, soothing and so very welcome.

The well-known phrase, ‘When robins appear, loved ones are near’, alludes to the belief that the robin is a messenger. When robins are seen, some people take comfort that loved ones are at peace, and many believe that their lost loved ones are visiting them.

A passed loved one is watching over you. If you’ve recently lost a family member or friend, they may reappear as a butterfly to let you know you’re not alone. Many people take this as a sign that they’re loved one is well and continues to guide them.[1]

  • Try saying “hi” to the butterfly to return your loved one’s warm welcome or say a silent prayer in greeting.

Grief, this universal experience and yet, a totally individual journey. The loneliness of the journey. The physical impact, the tears, the mental confusion, anger and the ache, oh yes, that ache that seems ever present. I understand this will be a journey of years. Grief, a single word for the most complex of life changing events that is a universal experience.

They say that grief is the price we pay for love and the more significant the person was in your life story the deeper the change we will experience. A very special word of praise to those family members who spent so much time caring for the great Helen. Giving Mam the independence she so cherished.

RTE has had the worst of years this 2023 and the dust is far from settled but there is something that is worth saying, RTE is an incredible source of solace, belonging and comfort to a huge Irish diaspora the world over. As you sit it whatever far flung place you may be, to be able to tune in, and listen to our National Radio, and our great presenters, to Ray, John, Joe, Shay, whomever, It is just excellent content, full of our common Irishness, friendliness, warmth, inclusivity and welcome. Supporting public broadcasting is so important. Support it through its tough times in any way you can.

Happy Christmas Everyone. Pray for and more importantly, pray to, those who have gone ahead, Pray for those who travel an uncomfortable and VERY bumpy road. Pray and be thankful for being able to read and understand the meaning of this message.

To the beautiful people who support our nearest and dearest and many more besides, through the toughest of times and moments, I do not have the words to thank you enough. You know who I am taking about. God Bless.

Below is one of my favourite YouTube Chefs. As it would be, it is Andy Cooks, a Kiwi, now living and working in Australia. He is a no nonsense chef, with great hints on doing things fast and really well. I just followed his vegetables tips in this recipe, as well as brining my turkey and it worked out perf. Follow him if you like. I do.

Peace and comfort to you this time of year. As always, the links in this blog have been checked and are all OK. If for whatever reason you don’t want to hear from this blog, just let me know and I’ll remove you from my circulation list.

I know, I know, I’m a devil for editing my live posts, which is not the wisest of ideas. However when I see something relevant to the overall blog, I tend to update. My absolute favourite Christmas song (Driving Home for Christmas) and one of my favourite humans, Chris Rea were featured on a show on the box-in-the-corner (TV) last night. It was just lovely, and great to see him in his usual good form, health issues aside.

RESERVED for my 2023 Travel Vlog: You will have revisit this blog on sometime in the future to see my travel vlog to Maroubra, Sydney NSW. Hopefully it will be worth watching. Seasons Greetings…..

Christmas Blogs from times past.

Christmas Diary # 1 2014, https://wordpress.com/post/findmywhy.blog/276

2014 Christmas Diary #2, https://wordpress.com/post/findmywhy.blog/281

2014 Christmas Diary #3  https://wordpress.com/post/findmywhy.blog/289

2014 Christmas Diary #4 https://wordpress.com/post/findmywhy.blog/299

It’s Christmas eve 2015 https://findmywhy.blog/2015/12/17/its-christmas-eve-let-christmas-begin/

Turkey driving home 2015 https://findmywhy.blog/2015/12/21/the-turkeys-driving-home-for-christmas/

Christmas 2017 https://findmywhy.blog/2017/12/21/the-magic-of-christmas/

Christmas 2018 https://findmywhy.blog/2018/12/16/twas-the-night-before-christmas-2018/

Christmas 2019 https://findmywhy.blog/2019/12/16/merry-christmas-with-2020-vision/

Garry Benson.

And finally.

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